My prayers are with you Ineedanswers.

Thanks for the scripture-I honestly need it

11 Do not participate in the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but instead even expose them;

Also see Matthew 10:34-39. You are both to be married and remain so, however you have to stand for light and pray God brings him to repentance. And sometimes that involves hard decisions.

And there is also the concern, that if he was caught without you turning him in, that you might be somehow accused of being into drugs yourself.

Morally, legally and financially, unmarried people who enter into sexual union have no recourse to God or society to redress domestic problems that develop between them. Divorce is technically a “remarriage certification,” not just a permanent separation. As Gary above stated, separation is often an answer to extremely problematic marriages or where laws are being broken in the home. This is why Paul concedes that a Christian woman may have some occasion to leave her husband; but if she does, she must remain unmarried or be reconciled to him. The only exception that is different is if the unbelieving spouse leaves her.

To Ineedanswers above, if you can find a temporary situation with family or friends who are willing to take you in on an indefinite basis, then it may be the thing to do. Or, depending on where you live, there may be shelters offered by social services or charitable agencies. But, do not seek a “remarriage certification” (Divorce). This would put you in danger of judgment from God (unless your husband, as the unbeliever, leaves, as was pointed out above).

James 5:13 says, is any among you afflicted, let him pray. If you have a home church seek their counsel and prayer too.

God tests the reins of our hearts in this life. The things we hope for as our “paradise on earth” can become a source of pain and trial. Our homes can become a battleground. Even Jesus says that 2 can be against 3 in a home, or a mother against a daughter-in-law. Because of Adam and Eve’s sin, our world became this way because it was not God’s original plan to curse us and our world. We must not have our hopes pinned to this world and this life. He alone is our hope. We are to pray for the days when His Will will be done on earth as it is in Heaven.
Won’t that be great when Jesus returns to bring us that answer?

Pray for your husband and be kind to him, even if you find you need to leave; for, as Jesus says, this shows proof that you are a child of God.

I do agree with GaryV in that your safety and health may be in jeopardy and you should do what’s necessary to protect it. Maybe separation and prayer will be what’s needed in order for your husband’s eyes to truly be opened and see that you love him but you are not going to continue down a destructive path that jeopardizes your well being and his soul.

I pray you seek wisdom and sound counsel that can give you spiritual, emotional and if need be, physical support. My heart truly goes out to you and I will be praying that all things will work out together for good in your situation. May God’s will prevail in your situation.

I agree about the Aids, which has me really scared. I can no longer commit to him in that manner.

Thank God, we have no chidlren but he has a 14 year old son he has custody of that he sent to live with his mother because he could not care for
him and I demanded that he did.

He just doesn’t want to take responsibility and I can’t do my part and his