There’s an old saying that goes like this:
?Give a man a fish; you have fed him for today. Teach a man to fish; and you have fed him for a lifetime?
We don’t know who said it, but we know whoever said it was 100% correct. So what happens if you give someone a house instead of teaching them to recover from disaster to obtain their own? Well in this particular case it was probably all a scam to begin with, but even if not a scam it teaches a valuable lesson.
Reader Eric sent me this story.
2 Unrepentant About Sale of Katrina Home
MEMPHIS, Tenn. — A church that wanted to do something special for Hurricane Katrina victims gave a $75,000 house, free and clear, to a couple who said they were left homeless by the storm. But the couple turned around and sold the place without ever moving in, and went back to New Orleans.
“Take it up with God,” an unrepentant Joshua Thompson told a TV reporter after it was learned that he and the woman he identified as his wife had flipped the home for $88,000.
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Delores Thompson, who did most of the talking for her family, told the committee that she had lost her job as a nurse and that her husband had lost an import-export business in New Orleans, committee member Joy Covington said.
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After the church settled on Thompson, real estate agent Phillips helped her pick out the house she wanted, and it was bought in Thompson’s name. She took possession in February and sold it in September. Property transfer records for the resale list her as unmarried; the papers from the original sale list her as married.
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Thompson claimed she and her family were living in an apartment supplied by the Federal Emergency Management Agency, but did not invite Phillips over during the house search.
“She didn’t want me coming over there,” Phillips said. “She’d say, `I’ll meet you.’”
Covington’s husband, Edward, said the family had been listed by FEMA as displaced. But he said the church took Thompson’s word for it that their house was destroyed.
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Looks to me like the folks of the Temple of Deliverance Church of God in Christ in Memphis, TN were taken for a ride. And I firmly feel they could have prevented this from occurring. (Interesting that the church is on a street named after the sitting pastor.) They attempted to give away an entire house, rather than helping someone obtain a house who would better appreciate it by putting money into the home themselves. I feel the church was really trying to do a good thing and their charity was abused. They should have maybe taken just a portion of that $75,000, to help a needy family with a PORTION of a down payment for a home AFTER they were helped to find a job. Then let that family WORK to keep their house. Teach them to do for themselves. Then the rest of that $75,000 could have been used to help many other families move into homes of their own. If anyone flips their house in such a case, at least you’ve helped some who probably did want a home, instead of helping one group of scammers line their pockets.
I’m sure the scam artists won’t benefit from their deed.
A church I was attending while in Georgia also was helping Katrina victims that were not prepared. Our paster ran the effort in a way to really help the folks to help themselves, rather than giving them everything they felt they needed.
Once Peter and John faced a situation where they could either give a man alms (money in charity) or the ability to do for himself.
Acts 3:1-10 (New King James Version)
1) Now Peter and John went up together to the temple at the hour of prayer, the ninth hour.
2) And a certain man lame from his mother?s womb was carried, whom they laid daily at the gate of the temple which is called Beautiful, to ask alms from those who entered the temple;
3) who, seeing Peter and John about to go into the temple, asked for alms.
4) And fixing his eyes on him, with John, Peter said, ?Look at us.?
5) So he gave them his attention, expecting to receive something from them.
6 Then Peter said, ?Silver and gold I do not have, but what I do have I give you: In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, rise up and walk.?
7) And he took him by the right hand and lifted him up, and immediately his feet and ankle bones received strength.
So he, leaping up, stood and walked and entered the temple with them?walking, leaping, and praising God.
9) And all the people saw him walking and praising God.
10) Then they knew that it was he who sat begging alms at the Beautiful Gate of the temple; and they were filled with wonder and amazement at what had happened to him.
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Sometimes just giving people what they ask for only enables them to remain stuck with their issue.